I get so tired of how sex negative society can be, and even how that bleeds into the queer and polyam communities. It’s ok to…The Porn Crisis That Isn’t A small number of adults—roughly 11 percent of men and 3 percent of women—consider themselves somewhat addicted to porn, even…One of my favorite therapists to follow on all of social media is @DrSprankle. I really identified with a lot of this clip. While the religion…Why We Feel Shame After We Orgasm Sex isn’t shameful. You aren’t shameful for enjoying it—in whatever form you like having it—with other consenting adults, or…Death, Sex & Money did a short episode on one night stands for Valentine’s Day. This particular story really stood out to me because it’s…Sex-Positivity Means Unlearning Shame For years, I believed that something was wrong with me for being curious about sex for pleasure. I felt wrong for fantasizing…Let this song be the anthem of the 20’s once this god damn pandemic is over.
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